The moment they realized their partner was cheating



People Share the Moment They Realized Their Partner Was Cheating


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People Share the Moment They Realized Their Partner Was Cheating

Loyalty is everything in a relationship. But why then, in over 40% of marriages, do one or both partners admit to cheating? And that doesn’t include relationships where betrayal is caught redhanded – or uncovered after months of meticulously piecing together the warning signs.

The sad truth is that it happens more than we want to admit. So when Reddit user MDGiov started a thread with the question, “How did you find out your S.O. was cheating?” people couldn’t wait to share their own outrageous accounts.

Whether they found out about the infidelity in person or through their partner’s phone calls, Facebook messages and/or shady dating app downloads (gotta love technology), these Reddit users weren’t afraid to post (and vent) all about it:

The Phone Call

“We were engaged, I had miscarried two weeks earlier, as he was driving me to the bus station so I could get a bus home (moved to a different city for him) the girl called to say she was almost done moving her stuff in and could she just toss what he didn’t give me time to pack.” – Kzinkitten

The Toilet Seat

“Came home from working a double shift and found the toilet seat up. Either my wife didn’t [urinate] for 20 hours straight or there had been another man in my house. We divorced shortly after…” – signalthree

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The Doppelganger

“She had a number of alternate Facebook pages under pseudonyms. One day, one of them showed up on my ‘suggested friends,’ and I said, ‘Hey, this girl looks a lot like [her].’ So, I looked at it. Sure enough, it was her, and she had an active relationship going on with someone else. I later found two more of these pages.” – PrimeEchoes

The Wedding

“His mistress told me at the wedding of a mutual friend, so that was nice.” –flowerbright

The Dirty Browser

“I was home recovering from two major back surgeries and one afternoon while taking a nap with our daughter, I got up and walked in the office to see what he was doing. He minimized his browser and jumped, so I knew something was up. I reopened his browser, and it was websites for cheating spouses…” – ragekage82

The Two “Friends”

“She introduced us to each other one day referring to both of us as her ‘friends,’ which made us both suspicious … cue Facebook conversation to clarify our supposed relationships with her. For someone who had multiple business degrees, she wasn’t very smart.” – garoo1

The (Possibly) Unnecessary Pill

“Found her birth control pills. I had a vasectomy right after our second child was born. Sure, there’s other reasons to be on the pill, which would have been believable if she had [tried those].” – boxingdude

The Awkward Airport

“A girl I know married this guy from her home town (in the UK). He took a job in Canada and they moved out into the middle-of-nowhere Canada. She had two kids over three years. Then she found out her dad was dying, so she flew back to the UK and stayed there for a few months. Got back to Canada the same week her dad passed and got greeted at the airport by [her husband] and his mistress!” – BoonSolo

The Blunt Response

“She told me her husband was getting out of jail soon.” – pedrobeara

The Worst Mail Ever

“I received a letter in the mail from a college I never went to. Weird. Inside, I found the entire texting history between my now ex-husband and his lover. I have determined that the sender was most likely the lover herself or her scorned husband (local police officer). Added bonus: At the time, I was seven months pregnant.” – redefine_happy


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